Darren Hardy, Well-Being - Written by on Wednesday, March 24, 2010 9:56 - 16 Comments

How to Change the World

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Since there was so much interest in the “Enough Already!” article, I wanted to extend the discussion by sharing something incredibly profound with you…

This article could change the life you experience forever. No joke.

I want to show you how to completely change the world…  in an instant. This might be a bit controversial for many, and even more won’t have the stomach to do what I am suggesting…

You can rid the world of all wars, crimes, scandals, gossip, corruption and international conflict. You have that much power…  in the palm of your hand.

Are you ready to change the world (if you dare)?

Hit the ‘OFF’ button.

Turn OFF your TV
Turn OFF your radio
Turn OFF your newspaper subscription

I’ve explained before (video: Media Madness) how watching media that aggregates the most brutal, shocking, heinous and scandalous events of the day can give you a perverted view of the world. Meanwhile millions of beautiful, miraculous,positive and wonderful things happen during the same day that don’t get any attention. It’s incredibly destructive to your spirit and creative potential.

Here is the controversial part…

Early on, I learned the difference between THE world and MY world. I only pay attention to MY world. After all it’s the only thing I can do anything about. Paying too much attention to the rest of it only makes me feel fearful, frustrated and cynical.

All I have in life is my attention. I have to make a choice of where I give it. That choice affects my experience of life and determines my potential for positive creativity. I can focus it on the worst of the world or the best. I can focus it on things I can’t do anything about or I can focus it on those things that I can and that have a direct on my life and my family.

So, until the war comes marching up my street, I’m not paying much attention to it. Until Al Qaeda knocks on my door and threatens my family, I’m not tracking their development. Until the earthquake is under my foundation or the tsunami rolls up my driveway, I’m not giving it my time. Murders, rapes, scandals, break-ins…  I’m not interested.

I can hear you saying, “Ya, but…!” Let me address a few of them.

1. “Ya, but doesn’t that make you uninformed?”

Personally, I’d rather be informed about areas of life that matter more to my personal goals and ambitions. I can’t quantify how spending two hours on Chile’s earthquake disaster is going to help me grow my business, make me healthier or improve my relationships.

What about compassion for humanity you say? Yes, but there are plenty of other references even more immediate in my world that offers me plenty of that.

Oh, and yes, I’m a voting citizen. When it comes time to pay attention to the issues before the ballots are printed, I’ll do my homework. It will take me a couple of hours versus the months of constant scandal, mudslinging, corruption and distraction others will allow.

Let me show you an alternative option. A couple of years ago, a top executive hired me to mentor him on improving his productivity. He complained he didn’t have enough time for personal improvement study or for his family. When I dissected his day he spent 45 minutes in the morning reading the newspaper, another 35 minutes listening to news, both back and forth to work. During his workday, he’d check Yahoo! News several times, spending at least 20 minutes in total. When he got home, he’d catch the last 15 minutes of the local news while greeting his family. Then he’d catch up on 30 minutes of sports news and 30 minutes of the 10 o’clock news before going to bed. In total he was spending 3.5 hours with the news each day! I suggested he keep his TV and radio off, cancel his newspaper subscription, and set up an RSS feed so he could select and receive only the news he deemed important for his business and personal interests.

Doing so immediately cleared out 95 percent of the mind-cluttering and time-sucking noise and distraction. He could now review all that mattered to him in less than 20 minutes a day. This left the 45 minutes in the morning (his commute time), and that hour in the evening for productive activities: exercise, listening to instructional and inspirational material, reading, planning, preparing, and spending quality time with his family. He told me he never felt less stressed (constant negative news has a tendency to make you anxious), and more inspired and focused than he does now.

2. “Ya, but someone has to care about these issues.”

Yes, you are right, and I am glad others do. I call it picking our battles. Some pick the political battle, some the human rights battle, some the hunger battle, some the homeless battle, some the whales battle, etc. Pick what really matters to you, get involved with your whole heart and soul and stay focused on it. You take care of that issue for me and I’ll take care of this issue for you. That way we can actually get some things done. But instead, most people just corrupt their head with all of it and do nothing about any of it. How could you? It’s overwhelming and overly time consuming. Stick to what you care about, not what CNN does…  every day.

3. “Ya, but my son is over fighting in Afghanistan.”

Bless him and bless you. As I mentioned above, pay attention to what is affecting your immediate family. If your immediate family is involved in some aspect of national news, then, of course, it’s worthy of your attention. It still doesn’t mean you need to bombard yourself with every aspect of the international war on terror. Instead pay attention to what is directly affecting your son and stay focused on him and his immediate world.

It all comes down to this—what you give your attention to becomes the reality of your world. Give your attention to scandals, murders, war, fear and brutality and that will program your creative computer and your world around you. Instead, focus your attention on what’s good, wonderful, abundant, wholesome and possible in the world. Focus your attention on ideas, information and knowledge that can help you grow, prosper, create and contribute to making a positive difference based on your unique talent, skills and effort. Turn OFF the rest… it will change your world and your life!

By the way, that is the type of information we work hard to collect for you in each issue of SUCCESS magazine (and in the enclosed CD in each issue), and what I labor to present to you here on this blog. I hope you benefit and enjoy!

Ready to change (your) world? Tell us about it and/or your view in the comments below.


About

Darren Hardy joined in September of 2007 to help launch SUCCESS Media and SUCCESS magazine. Previously, Hardy held executive positions at two personal development-focused television networks: He was Executive Producer and Master Distributor for The People’s Network, and President of TSTN, The Success Training Network (no affiliation with SUCCESS magazine). Hardy has been the President/CEO or private-equity investor in several other multimedia companies. Darren Hardy embodies success: an entrepreneur since age 18, he was a self-made millionaire by 27. He currently resides in San Diego, Calif., and commutes to the company’s Dallas, Texas, headquarters.

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16 Responses to “How to Change the World”

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  2. Michelle Murrell says:

    Hi Darren,
    Thank you for this good read. Reading it reminded me that there is a balance to everything… including this subject. Being a reader of the Holy Bible too, it immediately brought this particular passage to my mind: “Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy– think about such things.” — Paul to the Philippians 4:8

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  4. Greg Smith says:

    “Instead, focus your attention on what’s good, wonderful, abundant, wholesome and possible in the world.”

    That’s so true. What you think, so you become. It means, actually you create your own world. All that happen to you start in your mind, and everything popping up in your mind is stimulated by anything you focus your attention on.

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  5. Jimmy West says:

    I can’t agree with you more. I used to spend hours to read newspapers and watching news on TV just to get me “well informed” so that I could show off to my friends. But then I realized that it contributed nothing to achieving my personal goals.

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  6. Opal Parrish says:

    I understand your concept, Darren, however it is hard for me to turn off the news. You see, I am a newscaster. In order, to follow your suggestions I would have to change jobs.

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  7. Kirk Davis says:

    As always great advice. I just thought I would quickly share my own story related to this. I live in Nottingham U.K which has had the reputation of “gun crime capital” for a number of years. I used to really focus on all the negative news and it seemed that everywhere I went I saw trouble and bad things happening.
    A couple years ago I heard this same message from someone and I decided to try it out for myself. Up until the other day I hadn’t heard about or seen one thing happen in this wonderful city and the only time I heard anything was the one time I decided to watch the news.
    All the media does is keep people in a constent state of fear. Most of “our” opinions are actually opinions of others conveyed through the media. Racism, Sexism, Hatred etc is all promoted through the media and if you cut the negative media out and replace with positive messages your thoughts and your world become a much a better place

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  8. Blake Junior says:

    This is the reason why I don’t watch TV too much. It affects my whole personality on viewing things. I always ridicule bad actions when I was still watching too much news. I have dramatically changed into looking for the positive side of a person after I stopped watching the news on TV.

    I am updated with the world after I logout from my email. This is the only time I check on what is happening with the world.

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  9. Quincy Rogers says:

    This article made me think of the weight loss guru who is always shouting “Stop The Madness!”. I love your ideas, Darren. I spend very little time watching the TV or listening to the radio and I never read the paper.

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  10. Jojo says:

    I never thought about wasted time reading the news that do not affect me. I will assess use of time and dedicate most of them on things that matter now.

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  11. Nancy Ottoman says:

    3.5 hours watching TV? Triple that and you have the amount of time my husband spends watching the television. That is, until he read this article. Thanks, Darren.

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  12. Lisa Matney says:

    I am ashamed to think of how much time I have wasted in front of the TV. Thanks for the encouragement, Chad, to pull myself away and make room for the things that matter in my world.

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  13. Harry Chart says:

    This message is exactly what my father has told me about verse of Philippians 4:8 in the Bible which says “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think about such things.”

    Thanks Darren for opening my eyes on how to think of things that excellent and praiseworthy. I never thought that media can affect my world until now.

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  14. R. Arnolds says:

    I only turn my television on when I know exactly what is going to be on. I think it is a waste of the mind. To much negativity out there.

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  15. Doloris M. says:

    I love this article. It is so very true. There are things I watch and listen to all the time. They draw me in and in the end I am just worried or confused. I will try and focus only on what is important to “My” world.

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  16. Hi Darren,

    Hard to swallow but extremely true! You unfolded a time management concept that very profound. In an endeavour to do all we end up doing nothing. Stick-to-it-ness is the way to go. I’ll keep this in mind always.

    Thanks so much for handling this controversial issue in such a practical way.

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