Darren Hardy - Written by Darren Hardy on Tuesday, July 5, 2011 15:53 - 8 Comments
You ARE Influential…
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…For Better or Worse
What do Jesus Christ, Charles Darwin, Adolf Hitler, Martin Luther King Jr. and Vladimir Lenin have in common? Each is deemed one of the 100 Most Influential Persons in History in Michael Hart’s 1978 book.
Interesting, isn’t it?
You don’t have to like what their influence was or what they influenced people to do—that’s beside the point, and well, also the point. Each of these people influenced millions of others to do as they envisioned and directed.
The key point is: Influence is powerful, and the same qualities and charisma that can influence people toward human enlightenment can also be used to influence people to destruction and great inhumanity.
Another vital understanding of influence is: You don’t have to be standing on a mountaintop speaking profound parables or pumping your fists on a lectern while shouting madly into a microphone in front of legions of people to be influential.
It is crucially important to know that we are all, at all times, influencing people and the environment around us.
We are energetic beings. As we enter every room, mix with any group or converse with any other living being, we are either bringing enlightenment or we are darkening the world around us.
Additionally, we come to understand ourselves by connection and contrast with other human beings. You are either providing the contrast of positive potential—the elevated status of who they could become—or providing the temptation for them to surrender to their own human frailty. This means your influence is truly life-changing.
As you have probably gathered by now, this issue of SUCCESS is focused on influence—how to gain it and how to use it… for good. In this issue we will further explore the ways each of us exerts either positive or negative influence—and we will ask you “Are You Using Your Power for Good or Evil?”
Speaking of influence, I am often asked what has been my most favorite interview of the hundreds I have done with some of the most fascinating people on the planet. On the CD enclosed with this issue, the first interview is my new, all-time favorite. The subject’s name is Louis Zamperini. He is 94 years old and one of the most extraordinary people I have ever met. I meet a lot of successful people, but few whom I would call a tried-and-true hero. To interview him was one of the most memorable treats of my life and I am sure that listening to him will be one of yours as well. Also on the CD is my interview with Robert Cialdini, author of the book that has been most enlightening to me on the topic of influence. Don’t miss it.
We hope this issue will have some small influence in enlightening your better you.
On the topic of influence, what do you do to be a positive influence in other people’s lives? Share your ideas, tips and suggestions in the comments below.
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a compilation post of the most influential man of history, not all of them are good but the point is the post tells that everyone can be of influence to others.
- Jack Leak
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I always like Charlie Sheen, great actor – gonna miss him on 2.5 men…
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What Gandhi said is true: “You have to become the change you seek in the world.” The best way to influence someone is by who you are, which is more often indirectly accomplished through a commitment to living by the values you wish to inspire in others.
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Where is the info about the “SUCCESS book club” from page 7 of the new issue?
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Robert Reply:
July 6th, 2011 at 11:28 pm
That is also why i’m here, looking for more details…. But i guess this is about buying and reading the book and just comment in facebook, isn’t it?
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Keve Thomas Reply:
July 11th, 2011 at 12:21 pm
Winning, Not the Charlie Sheen Kind
In his new book, Win: The Key Principles to Take Your Business from Ordinary to Extraordinary, former pollster Frank I. Luntz demonstrates the how-to behind winning strategies, using examples from some of the world’s most successful businessmen, politicians and sports figures.
SUCCESS editors and staff collaborated this month to read Win by Frank I. Luntz and will begin online discussions Aug. 1. This month, you will determine:
1) How to identify your target audience for what you want to communicate
2) Connect with your customers and employees on a human level.
3) Stay one step ahead of the competition.
Here’s an interesting but hopefully not foreboding quote from Chapter 1: “To what do I owe my success? Three things: I came to America. I worked very hard. And I married a Kennedy.” —Arnold Schwarzenegger
Since we all can’t marry Kennedys, we encourage your success by joining our #WINNING book club.
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Hi,
The best way I believe I can make a difference and be more influential in other’s lives is ensuring I can communicate ‘why’ I do what I do.
After reading Simon Sinek’s book ‘Start with Why’, I believe telling people ‘why’ you do what you do, creates a potential to build a deeper emotional connection with someone who feels the same which can naturally lead to being influential and create loyalty.
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Darren…as always…I can’t wait for this month’s issue and CD!
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