Mel Robbins, Well-Being - Written by Mel Robbins on Wednesday, July 15, 2009 14:19 - 16 Comments

What a Day for Daydreams

In the 1850s, Ernest and Pierre lived their childhoods kicking rocks up and down the cobble stoned streets of Bar-le-Duc, France.  Their father, a blacksmith, spent his days hammering away at carriage parts, with the clang against the anvil echoing through the cement walled town.  Ernest and Pierre, carrying heavy bags and wooden crates of their father’s previous days work, delivered the parts to the carriage company every morning.  One day, to ease their burden, they built themselves a rudimentary wheel barrow and took turns pushing it while making their delivery.  On the way home, day after day, month after month, these brothers took turns pushing one another in the wheel barrow - just for fun.  They spent the rest of their time helping their father, building things from scrap metal, and daydreaming.

Their daydreams, along with their daily routines, led them to design the “velocipede”, a one-man wheel barrow, who’s cargo was only the man himself. And it’s intent was not for industry or efficiency, but only for enjoyment.  For freedom. Their velocipede eventually became the bicycle, and Ernest and Pierre became known as the “fathers of the bicycle.”

These last few weeks have filled our televisions and magazines with many stories.  From Michael Jackson, to Farrah Fawcett, to Ed McMahon, Sarah Palin, and 5th grade teachers sending sex tapes home with her students.  But I tell you the story of the bikes because there’s another, much more amazing story happening in the mountain towns of France carried on the wheels of a modern day velocipede.

Lance Armstrong, at this moment, is among the leaders of the Tour de France after having taken four years off from racing.  Many French streets are yet to be ridden, but the very fact he’s in contention for a Yellow Jersey, awarded to the current leader of the Tour, is already monumental.  The story of the seven time champion of the Tour has already been written.  Cancer.  Dedication.  Seven championships.  The most successful cancer fighting charity in the world.  New York Times best-selling author.  But the history books should have saved a few blank pages near of end of Lance’s storybook.

What is the point of all this bike talk?  Is it to remind you how Lance Armstrong overcame adversity and how you can apply it to your own life?  Or maybe I’d just like to inspire you to get out on your bike, get some exercise?  Then again, thinking of Ernest and Pierre running around the streets of France pushing each other around in a wheel barrow, that kind of makes me want to run home and play with my kids. So maybe I’m trying to tell you something about family and togetherness, and inventiveness?

All of the above.  And none of the above.  Today, it’s not about having dreams and goals, passions and loves, or even a story to tell.  What I take away from Ernest is how important it is to pay attention to your daydreams and not ignore them.  Do you know what Lance Armstrong has been doing since he retired from biking?  Running marathons, actually.  And most of them in under three hours.  What do you suppose kept Lance’s mind distracted as his feet pounded the cement streets for 26.2 miles?  I’m guessing he, at times, let his mind wander and think back to all those years riding through the streets of France.  The same streets where, their arms tired from carrying the weight of newly smithed carriage parts, Ernest and Pierre daydreamed of going faster and further than their tired little legs could take them.

In those daydreams lived real dreams and real goals.  Before any of them could dream of building a velocipede, or riding once again on the Tour de France, they had to first pay attention to the random thoughts pedaling around their brains, reach out and grab them.

Don’t worry if you, at this very moment, don’t have a Mount Everest to climb, a book to write, or a graphics design firm to open.

We live in a world where everyone is go, go, go.  Task A is done, what’s next?  Task B is done, now what?  Start at Point C, and go to Point D.  Then go to Point E.  I have this, this, that, and another thing to do, then I’ll have time to do this.  Email me.  Call me.  Go there.  Pay that.  Look at this.  Read it.  Watch it.  Fix it.  Use it.  Go back and do it all again.

Many people scoff at Facebook and Twitter calling them useless and pointless.  But for those of us who understand the importance of daydreaming, we understand how enjoyable both of them can be.  Like a personal journal, or a friendly note sent inside a greeting card, some of the best things don’t have a point at all.  Or do they?  While I’m always preaching about the path, the road map, and the process, I’d be misleading you if I didn’t tell you to also learn to relax and dream.  Better yet, ride your bike up to the nearest ice cream shop and enjoy some time alone with your thoughts and just daydream, and your dreams will follow.

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Mel is a no-nonsense life and business coach who has turned her expertise and love for helping people into an impressive media career. She is the producer and host of the hit syndicated radio show The Mel Robbins Show, broadcast in 40+ markets across the country. Mel has recently been tapped to host a Saturday morning show on Boston’s Talk Evolution, 96.9 WTKK and to serve as the spokesperson for Microsoft Office Live. Since 2001 Mel has run a successful coaching and keynote speaking business serving F500 corporations, conferences and media events (Johnson&Johnson, Partners Healthcare, Wells Fargo, Fidelity, Harvard University, Massachusetts Women's Leadership Conference, etc.) as well as to high level executives and individual clients, helping them reach their professional and personal goals. Read more

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16 Responses to “What a Day for Daydreams”

  1. Oscar Pence says:

    Thanks, Mel, for this reminder that some of the greatest acheivements of mankind have come from someone’s dream of making the world a better place.

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  2. Jasmine King says:

    Without my dreams I have no goals. Without goal’s what’s the purpose behind each day. I pray I never stop dreaming until the day I die.

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  3. Artemis says:

    Thanks for this article, Mel. Now I can continue to dream my daydreams and make concrete plans to achieve them. Will keep on dreaming and believing.

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  4. R. Arnolds says:

    Daydreaming keeps the world going. Without dreams, where would we be? At times I will just stare out the window and dream about nothing. Is it really nothing though? You would be surprised what comes out of dreaming about nothing.

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  5. AmandaG says:

    How cool it is to actually daydream and find the perfect solution for a problem you’ve had. Dreams are always important. If you don’t have dreams you will never live up to the potential all of us have inside of us. Thanks for the reminder!

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  6. Kenny says:

    What a great reminder that every invention did start from someone’s daydream! I’ve got a lot of dreams and I can’t wait to get started on making them reality. Thanks for the extra push!

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  7. Oma says:

    Thanks, Mel. I’d like to live my dreams, and now, you have taught me how to achieve them. I’ll make some steps forward now to get there.

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  8. Walt says:

    Daydreaming did indeed bring many inventions to light. If we don’t sit and think, how can we ever come up with solutions to problems. It’s like studying your textbook at school. That also makes you think and dream so you can solve problems with the knowledge you have gained. Thanks for the tips!

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  9. Lori says:

    I daydream every day! I think it keeps me young. I never thought about inventions and new technology. Thanks for the interesting article. It was a great read! I will now think about daydreaming differently.

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  10. Helen says:

    And I thought that daydreaming was only for kids. I loved reading this and you are right, we are always in a rush to get something done or to get here or there. I am going to schedule “me time”, time to clear my head and dream from now on.

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  11. Bret M says:

    I loved this article. How true it is to remember that we all need to take time out for ourselves. I will never again tell someone to take their heads out of the clouds. Daydream, why not right?

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  12. Candy says:

    I thought daydreams are only about Prince Charming and other castles built in the air as against dreams to be achieved. You are saying daydreams can become dreams to be achieved…

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  13. Candice Daily says:

    Thanks for the great article, Mel. Before we can make our dreams come true, we have to take the time to dream. That’s why I love my early morning walks.

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  14. Julie says:

    What a great article. From dreams came some of the best things in life. The light bulb, the television, the radio, every invention that was ever brought to life came from dreams and thoughts. Mankind would surely still be living in caves if it weren’t for the dreams that we’ve had. Thanks!

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    Ralph Reply:

    You are correct Julie, we are where we are right now because of the dreams of our ancestors. They wanted better life and dreamed about it and now we are living their dreams.

    Thanks for this article because my dreams were reignited. I will hold into them even though I can’t fulfill them in my lifetime because I’m sure that this dream of mine will be realized and lived by my children in the future.

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  15. jlukasavige says:

    What a great article Mel! I actually schedule time for my team and I to get out of the office and dream.

    It’s so important that I feel we’d be doing pretty poorly in business if we didn’t take the time to do so.

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